8 Things You Should Never Say to Your Boyfriend

Words are like eggs that you can never get back once they've been spoken. In the heat of the moment, we've all, at some point of the other, said words we regretted immediately and even though we got the chance to apologize, things were never quite the same afterwards.


Words are that powerful; they have the power to build or gradually crumble a relationship, one solid brick at a time.
The sad part about this harmful effect is that, you never really see the damage building, until the whole house come crumbling like a pack of cards.

Saying hurtful or angry words is listed as one of the top killers of relationships and you should avoid them as much as you can.


Here's a list of the top 8 things you should never say to your boyfriend, no matter how upset you are:


1. I Wish I Never Met You!


We've all been there; your boyfriend makes you so upset, you literarily wish he would just disappear off the surface of the earth.


However, you should know that this feeling of anger is only temporary, but whatever you say will last for all lifetime. So no matter how angry you are, you should desist from saying anything just yet.

If it helps, take a walk away from that environment and come back when you are much calmer, then in a calm way, let him know what he did that upset you.

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2. I Have Other Better Options
As women, we will always have other guys hitting on us. We love this attention as women; its actually the way we were made.
While there is absolutely nothing wrong having a few guys hit on you, what's wrong is rubbing this in your boyfriend's face, especially in the heat of the moment.

Doing this just might make your boyfriend think you aren't all-in in the relationship and likely push him to try to be with someone else as a backup.


3. Don't Insult His Mother or Any Other Family Members


This is just inexcusable! Insulting your boyfriend's mother can make you come across as lacking in good morals and character. It shouldn't be done, even as a joke. The way we wouldn't want our boyfriend insulting our mom or any other member of our family for that matter, is the same courtesy we should extend to him and insult his.

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4. Don't Try to Downgrade His Sexual Prowess


There are always two (or more) options to every problem. If your boyfriend isn't that great in the sack, you can either point this out to him in a subtle, non-degrading manner and suggest ways to correct this or quietly leave the relationship.


You should never use this against him knowing how very sensitive men are about their sexual prowess.


5. Don't Threaten to Leave All the Time

No one should have to put up with someone who thinks they are doing us a favour by being with us. Everyone deserves someone who loves them and thinks they are special.
If your partner is always threatening to leave, you should do them the favour and actually leave first. You deserve better!

Doing so will also be a sort of reality check to tell them they aren't indispensable like they think and you can have better too.


6. Don't Discuss Your Past Sexual Escapades


The past should remain in the past. Discussing your past sexual escapade might actually work against you and come to bite you in the arse.

Most guys aren't as free-minded as they want you to believe and might have a hard time fully accepting and letting go of your past, especially if you had a very colourful one.
Leave the past where it is and concentrate on building a new, trusting and lasting future with your new man.


7. Don't Compare Him to Your Boyfriend or Your Ex


No two relationships are the same. Scratch that. No two people are the same and comparing your current boyfriend to your ex is actually courting trouble.


Doing so also would not be a fair thing as you'd be comparing your boyfriend's weaknesses to your ex's strengths and of course, he's sure to come out in less glowing colours.


A more positive action would be to calmly discuss your boyfriend's weaknesses with him; letting him know those things he does that upset you or aren't beneficial to the relationship.


You might also want to go a step further and suggest solutions to these issues, that way, your criticisms are seen as constructive.


8. I Make More Money Than You

There will always be women who are doing great in their career and earn an enviable salary. Some of these women will also be with guys who they earn more than.
Depending on the agreement you have with your man, you might find yourself servicing most of the bills that come. For some women, this is fine, for a few others, it can get frustrating, especially if it seems the man isn't quite pulling his weight or is taking advantage of you.

While it might be especially difficult at such times, you should desist from throwing in his face how inadequate you think he is or how you make note money than him.
Even for guys with a healthy self esteem, constantly having remind you fact she earns a bigger pay can play some major havoc on your esteem.

Earning a higher pay is always a sensitive situation that could go south if not handled with the utmost care (with most guys having the fragile ego they have), you don't want to make worse the situation by constantly reminding him of this.